Lillie and I took a trip to Ohio for 7 days in May. We went to visit my Best Friend Dale and help her out. She was diagnosed with Breast Cancer in February and has been going through Chemo treatments. The chemo that she is receiving now is not nearly as toxic as her first round and it doesn't have all of the terrible side effects of it either. But it does make her extremely tired. So I went to visit and help take care of her kiddos for the week. She invited Lillie to come as well and it was great to bring her. It was pretty special to take such a big trip just the two of us.
Here we are in the plane as we head out of SA:
Dale has a little girl named Lauren that is the same age as Lillie. They were shy at first but by the end of the car ride from the airport they were the best of friends. They stayed up late every night and Joe (Dale's Husband) ended up with the nick name "The Enforcer" as he would sit by their bedroom door each night to make them fall asleep. I caught them early one morning down in the basement playing kinectables.
We went garage sale-ing and found matching angel costumes for $1. They ran around in these all week and put on lots of "shows" for us to watch.
I took the kids to see the movie "Mirror Mirror" while Dale got some much needed rest. They loved the movie but the best part was at the end when the credits were rolling. The girls and Dale's son Jacob started dancing to the music a little. Then they started dancing more and more and more. They ended up moving out into the aisle following the dance moves of the characters on the screen. They were dancing up and down the aisle completely oblivious to the fact that the audience was watching them and not the screen. It was pretty cute!
The girls helping Joe plant a vegetable garden
Jacob as Batman. The kid ran around in this costume every single day. He also had a Robin costume that I had to wear a lot. We were good crime fighting buddies!
As the week went on Dale's tiredness began to wear off and we were able to do some fun things together. Here we took the kids to the Columbus Zoo:
This Polar Bear was so cute and entertained us with a lot of water tricks.
These bats are called Wolf Bats (I think) and they were huge! It made me think that if Vampires were real and they actually turned into bats then this is what they would look like.
Took a drive through the OSU campus
...and couldn't resist getting a shot with Brutus.
Here we are, Batman and Robin, the unstoppable duo!

Audrey and Dale. Twelve years ago a cancer diagnosis for one of us would have felt unbelievable. To me it still feels unreal. But Dale is one of the bravest people I know and a serious fighter. Her friend summed it up best when she said "Cancer picked the wrong person to mess with!" She is right. I don't know anyone more competitive than Dale and she wants to win this fight bad. She does everything that she can to give herself and her family the most normal life possible right now. And spending time with her and seeing her perspective has helped me to cherish my own life even more. From the scans that she has had it looks like all of her treatments are working and the tumors are shrinking. She will be done with Chemo at the end of June and have a double mastectomy in August. She will then have to be scanned every three months and have to wait a year to be deemed cancer free. When that happens they are throwing a big cancer free party and I told her, "I will be there!" I love her so much and I am so grateful that I know her!
